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Lynn Childress's avatar

You can learn surprising and useful local things by talking to people. Last week, someone told me that our public library is now lending e-bikes, but there is a long list of holds on the bikes. The DVD collection is still intact and their growing board game collection supports numerous local board game groups who can't afford to buy the games anymore.

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Worth Watson's avatar

Appreciate the essay and the comments about the promotion of serendipity and humanity via small talk,small walks and small interactions (like checking out a DVD). One reminder: if you witness small talk among other people, promote and (even better) encourage it by not appearing harried and succinctly joining in, respectively. As illustration, recently I was in in the grocery store line and after- at the most 35 seconds- of innocent small talk among the elderly lady and cashier, I caught myself rolling my eyes and nearly crossing my arms. Sherry Turkle would frown, and I did too at catching myself. The cashier is on a faraway MBA designed revenue/keystrokes per minute turnstile, the elderly lady was on a government designed fixed income, and I in my haste was hampering both of them from a small escape from the almighty algorithm. Pity the fool that is me. I then uncrossed my arms, leaned onto the cart push bar to relax, and gave the old lady a head nod as she searched for a coupon on brown sugar. I wondered what she was baking. I told the cashier, "I'm good." Take out the ear buds. Be aware of the goings on around you. Ask questions and let it feed your curiosity.

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