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Thomas B.'s avatar

Hey Tom,

Provocative and timely piece, but I do wonder if you've buried the lede here. Is it a matter of not looking things up or having the discernment to differentiate what is worth looking up and not? Is it about learning from people face to face or about discerning what one can and can't learn from conversation?

It reads to me as a disguised sermon on the virtue of prudence. All it's missing is a diatribe against the common practice of spending more time researching what can opener to buy than the question of how to live one's life.

Of concern though there seems to be a dissonance between the advisement of discernment and the example of diet research as a waste of time. I know plenty of folks who couldn't be bothered to ask questions about diet until it was too late. You seem to flirt with relativism and recommending that any difficult question is not worth bothering with. But what important question isn't difficult?

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Indded. Death by inaction, as a result of information overload. There is a soothing comfort in looking things up, because you naively think you'll be able to eliminate risk from the process. How many times have I looked things up telling myself "just one more tutorial about X subject, and I'll be able to nail it perfectly the first time ! Just one more video on this subject and I'll be able to explain it more clearly". But the truth is, the more you look things up, the more you see things you were not supposed to see so soon in the process. The more you look things up, the more you doubt, and the less you're prone to action. So you never act. But because of this pernicious cycle, you feel good about it, because really, it's not that you're not "doing" anything, you're just "setting yourself up for the win" (clever boï that you are).

You're like Max the taxi driver in Collateral (excellent movie by Michal Mann), who's been driving a cab for 12 years while accumulating business plans and spreadsheets to "someday" open his own limo company... And it's painful to see that he never will. Max probably looked a lot of shit up in those 12 years.

In the days before Internet, you'd just ask an acquaintance who'd vaguely knew something about the subject and that was it; you didn't really have much more room to move past that. So you were forced either to act or to accept that you weren't gonna do it. But thanks to the Internet and the information era, you can easily spend years crafting your little project in your head. 50 years ago, a guy wanting to write a book would just... start, and alea jacta est. Now, he feels the need to subscribe to a few creative writing classes, an online community and probably a few hundred hours of motivational writing videos/advices. But will is a fragile thing, and if you don't act quick enough, it eventually gets diluted amongsts the doubts and new shiny ideas. How many of us know people who are always full of ideas but act upon/finish none of them ?

"Such need for affirmation kills the intuitive"

And that's the final issue here. Intuition is a good thing. It's a thousand-years old biological weapon created by our brain in order to force us to act. But between the impostor syndrome and the information overload, it gets drowned and like every cognitive funtion, the less we use it, the worst it gets. Spend enough years looking things up and not building things, and you'll end up truly lost. A modern tragedy.

Excellent newsletter Thomas. See you on the Discord ;)

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