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Craig Burgess's avatar

Excellent as always.

The point about “flow” here is the be all and end all for me. I feel anxious if I don’t get that feeling at least once a day. I don’t think it’s good for us on any level to be perpetually distracted and unable to concentrate.

I suspect an uptick in anxiety disorders have directly resulted from our shot attention spans.

Protect it at all costs.

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Hayden Estey's avatar

I think the bit about addition you have at the end is crucial. Simply "quitting" a habit is dangerous, because you create a void in yourself that must be filled. If you don't fill it with something good, something worse will come along to take the place of what you removed. It might be a more extreme version of the old habit, or you might go from smoking cigarettes to shooting heroin.

With behavioral addictions, I think a lot of this occurs through spiritual growth. We can recognizing that satisfying our emotional needs through an addictive behavior isn't good, but creating or finding new ways to satisfy those needs is difficult, because it involves self-transformation. Sacrifice, death and rebirth, etc. You can't rewrite the rules of your own way of being just by thinking about it really hard (as much as I wish I could). A spiritual journey is necessary to undergo such transformation.

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